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A: you said it just their flirting nature you might see it one way they may see it as a way to just pass time wait and see if he’s into you he’ll speak up he can’t be shy if he flirts so just wait you don’t want to seem desperate or look stupid if he looks at you like umm yea i was just tryna kill time i din’t mean anything by the flirting

Q: Gay crush on personal trainer, what should I do?
Hi guys, the title tells pretty much what’s going on with me. Okay, long story short, I hired this trainer in one of the biggest gyms in here 2 months ago, who I did not find attractive at first. All I wanted from him was his advice on working out.

But then, after a few weeks, I started to have feelings for him, partly because of his physical attributes and his adorable personality. I tried my best to keep my feeling inside me and not to show anything in front of him, because I want to keep our relationship professional.

However, he did sent me some signals at times, like, he would help me stretch or lift weight in a way that involve body touch (i.e. putting his legs on my lap or sticking his chests on my back), at one time, we had eye contact for a few seconds, although he turned around embarrassedly.

He always look at me with a caring smile on his face and put his hand on my shoulder (in a friendly way) etc…. Maybe I misinterpret things (yes, I saw him checked out other girls), or maybe somehow he know that I am gay, so he used my vulnerability to keep me as his client…

All I know is, I have this huge crush on him and couldn’t get him out of my head. Should I just let him know and get this over with or should I keep hiding it from him? Please help!!

A: he will not know until u tell so just do. ask him out on a date. if he says no then all u have to do is get a new trainer or u can not tell him and suffer inside.
hell if i was u i would take the chance after all he has given u signals.
who knows mayb he is bisexual
best of luck

Q: Is it ok to have a crush on your personal trainer?
I have a female personal trainer who is really hot. She used to come over 3 days a week and put me through this totally cruelling workout and she so turned me on. Now I’m doing a new movie roll which requires me not to workout and I do not see her anymore. She calls once in awhile to check in and see when i need her again. We joke all the time..like I’ll say I need you now. But nothing ever comes of it. Should I ask her out?

A: If she’s not married, then go for it. Good luck with the movie role.

Q: Personal trainer crush?
A while ago he gave me his cell number pretty much just in case i needed to cancel and stuff and get a hold of him,..buttttt…on Tuesday he just got done with a client, and I was walking towards the lockerrooms…I was still about 500 ft away and he waited for me to say hi and everything before he walked into the men’s locker room. But these past couple days we have been talking NON STOP…hes been calling me babe and stuff…and thennn this saturday we’re supposed to go bowling after i get outta work…and then after bowling he said that we can go to his apt and hes goin to cook us dinner and then we will probably just watch a movie. does he seem interested orrr what do u think is goin on here?
and then when i was doin cardio before my training at the gym on tuesday …he got done with his last client, ran upstairs and stood on the front of my tredmill and talked to me ..he usually never does that to clients..so i thought that was a bit different??
So just let him make the moves right?? I have like 10 more sessions left with him…
cuz recently he was like im hoping we are still talking by july cuz i think it would be fun if we went to country thunder together..

A: He’s definitely interested – relax and see what happens…

Q: I have a crush on my personal trainer..?
I am majorly crushing on my trainer..and I’m pretty sure he flirts with me (although it’s probabaly part of his job)..when we work out I sweat like crzy..i’m literally dripping! Is this going to lessen my chances of getting hooked up or do trainers find this sexy?

A: there job isnt to flirt with you
there job is to give you a work out
so if he’s flirting its just plain flirting
and he most likely motivating you
if you like him and your getting hints from him go for it girl!!!!… What’ve you got to lose?!
I dont think it should lessen your chances of him liking you, he should know that his job requires working with sweat I’m pretty sure he knows better than to be scared of sweat, who knows maybe he does find it sexy perhaps thats why he flirt with you
well I hope everything works out.

Q: I have this crush on a personal trainer……?
Tommorow night, I am going to the gym with my mom and her friend(the personal trainer’s aunt). I realy want to hint to the aunt that I like her nephew, the personal trainer!!! What can I say to her so she can help set things up for me to see her nephew again!!

A: I say go the direct route.

Q: Gay crush on my personal trainer, what should I do?
I hired this trainer in one of the biggest gyms in here 2 months ago, who I did not find attractive at first.
But then, after a few weeks, I started to have feelings for him, partly because of his physical attributes and personality. I tried my best not to show anything in front of him, because I want to it professional.
He did sent me some signals at times, like, he would help me stretch or lift weight in a way that involve body touch (i.e. putting his legs on my lap or sticking his chests on my back), at one time, we had eye contact for a few seconds, although he turned around embarrassedly.
He always look at me with a caring smile on his face and put his hand on my shoulder (in a friendly way) etc…. Maybe I misinterpret things (yes, I saw him checked out other girls), or maybe somehow he know that I am gay, so he work it and try to keep me as his client.
I just couldn’t get him out of my head. Should I just let him know and get this over with or should I keep hiding it from him?

A: oral

Q: Gay crush on my personal trainer…?
Hi guys, the title tells pretty much what’s going on with me. Okay, long story short, I hired this trainer in one of the biggest gyms in here 2 months ago, who I did not find attractive at first. All I wanted from him was his advice on working out.

But then, after a few weeks, I started to have feelings for him, partly because of his physical attributes and his adorable personality. I tried my best to keep my feeling inside me and not to show anything in front of him, because I want to keep our relationship professional.

However, he did sent me some signals at times, like, he would help me stretch or lift weight in a way that involve body touch (i.e. putting his legs on my lap or sticking his chests on my back), at one time, we had eye contact for a few seconds, although he turned around embarrassedly.

He always look at me with a caring smile on his face and put his hand on my shoulder (in a friendly way) etc…. Maybe I misinterpret things (yes, I saw him checked out other girls), or maybe somehow he know that I am gay, so he used my vulnerability to keep me as his client…

All I know is, I have this huge crush on him and couldn’t get him out of my head. Should I just let him know and get this over with or should I keep hiding it from him? Please help!!

A: Wow- sounds hot! The sad news is i think you’re going to have to switch to another trainer. When you tell Mr. Stud-muffin-trainer you are thinking about switching, look him in the eyes and tell him that you are so attracted to him that it distracts you from getting a good workout.

Based on his reaction, chose on of the following:

a.) If he seems embarrassed and uninterested, follow through with the trainer-switch, knowing that at least you tried. Yeah… you’ll probably see him at the gym and it will probably be awkward, but at least you can still check out the other lusty lifters.

b.) If he seems embarrassed but curious, still switch trainers. But suggest you guys get together outside of the gym. Offer to buy him dinner or a drink. Definitely exchange phone numbers.

c.) If he seems interested but reserved, see option b.

d.) If he seems interested and gives you the look (you know the one i mean) head for the locker room with your stud and burn off some extra calories!!!

Q: Gay crush on a personal trainer, what should I do?
I hired this trainer in one of the biggest gyms in here 2 months ago, who I did not find attractive at first.
But then, after a few weeks, I started to have feelings for him, partly because of his physical attributes and personality. I tried my best not to show anything in front of him, because I want to it professional.
He did sent me some signals at times, like, he would help me stretch or lift weight in a way that involve body touch (i.e. putting his legs on my lap or sticking his chests on my back), at one time, we had eye contact for a few seconds, although he turned around embarrassedly.
He always look at me with a caring smile on his face and put his hand on my shoulder (in a friendly way) etc…. Maybe I misinterpret things (yes, I saw him checked out other girls), or maybe somehow he know that I am gay, so he work it and try to keep me as his client.
I just couldn’t get him out of my head. Should I just let him know and get this over with or should I keep hiding it from him?

A: You are in a proffesional relationship….don’t say anything. I believe the touching is simply part of his day to day work.
You are in an impossible situation.
If you decide to tell him, you should also opt for a new trainer. It might help release some of the emotion burden.
Good Luck

Q: I have a wierd gay crush on my personal trainer, what to do?
I have a girlfriend of two months who has said she would like to come to the gym with me, I have told her I need ‘guytime’ but really there is this guy there who helps me train who is really a bit of an adonis. I don’t really admit to such feelings a lot; but there’s just something amazing about how toned he is, and he’s cool, he’s australian. We’ve been for drinks after the gym too.
I love my girlfriend, but I feel a bit dirty thinking about my personal trainer. advice?

A: there is nothing wrong with fantasy.

think of it as being the same as having a bit of a crush on the hot chick in the next cubicle.

doesn’t mean you have to act on it.

Q: Should I Facebook friend the personal trainer i have a crush on?
There’s this personal trainer who’s been checking me out and making eye contact with me for the past few months at my gym but we never really get to speak because I’ve been too shy to approach him.

I’d like to ask him out but I’m not sure if he is gay, single, or just playing games. Ive decided to approach him and ask him some random fitness tips and suggestions and then add him to Facebook later so that I can solve this mystery before asking him out.

Do you think this is a good approach?

A: That is a good subtle approach. Nutting wrong with that. Fitness instructor here.

Q: How do I stop crushing on my personal trainer?
I’ve been working out with my pt for 2 months now and I have a crazy crush on him! I’ve never really been big on crushes. There’s definite chemistry between us and we have alot of common interests. I find that I’m always dressing up to go to the gym on the chance he’ll see me looking pretty before our sessions. I can’t stop thinking
about him. Problem, he has a gf and I have a bf!!!!! I don’t
want anything more with my pt(only in my dreams) so how
can I stop crushing on him so I can focus entiry on my bf?

My bf and I have been dating for 3 years. I’m physically
attracted to my pt, he’s not one of those gym jocks and doesn’t have a perfectly ripped body. I’m not really
physically attracted to my bf though despite him having a better body. I think it’s cause my bf is too metro while my pt is quite manly.
I know my ptvis just being nice to me, he’s not leading me on and having a crush on your pt is so cliche. But I can’t help it!

Should I tell my bf so we can work through this together? I do love him, I just can’t get rid of this ’schoolgirl’ crush!
My pt and I share alot of the same qualities (confident, outgoing, social, comptetive, ambitious) whereas my bf is unconfident, shy, not active, no goals, comes across as weird. I do love him though! I think this is why I like my pt so much though!

A: Don’t tell you boyfriend. It won’t be nice for him to know that so please keep it to yourself. What you are going through is pretty common among many people in relationships. You see someone more physically attractive than your current partner and you get to thinking: “hmmm, what if….” Well in your case actually you got to know your personal trainer and you liked him. If you get the vibe that he likes you too, flirt a bit and see how he responds. If he likes you, I assume you would know and if you like it, then I hate to say it, but end the relationship with your boyfriend because you don’t want things to escalate in a bad way. Don’t tell him you’re leaving him because of your personal trainer, cuz that would come across very much like a bitch. Just don’t do anything behind his back, because it won’t be fair to him.

“my bf is unconfident, shy, not active, no goals”. Figure something out in that direction.

Good luck

Q: Should I offer my personal trainer the ticket vochures?
I got 2 thrasher ticket vouchers both are good for 2 tickets (so that’s 4 tickets in all). There’s a personal trainer that I hadn’t officially had a session with yet but he’s been keeping track of me and helping me out. I kinda have a crush on him so if I can’t find another 2 people to go with me shoul i give him the extra voucher or shoul I invite him and a friend to go with?

A: Give him one voucher and invite him and his guest. This may give you a better idea if he’s “taken” or not. You should invite a relative or friend as your guest to help show him you don’t have a date.

Q: What are some signs that a woman likes you?
I’m a 19 year old male personal trainer majority of my clients are female and I’m wondering if these signs means they like me more than a trainer. They laugh and giggle when we do some exercises and talk, some of them have invited me to go to outside events with them, they like being a smart ass to me sometimes they stick there tongue out at me when exercising sometimes they make silly rude comments while I’m stretching them out. Is it also common for women to develop crushes on there personal trainers.

A: Well, sounds like how I act when I like someone.

Also, if you’re a personal trainer, you probably have a rockin’ bod. I wouldn’t be surprised if you got some admiration from the ladies. I don’t see why it wouldn’t be common.

Q: I have a crush on my trainer…what should I do?
I’ve got this problem…
I’m a 16 yo girl and I started going to the gym…with a personal trainer…I didn’t like him all that much at first…
I’ve been working out with him for about 3 months now and I have a really huge crush on him…I don’t know what to do…

He’s being super kind to me and when I’m with him , we talk about everything…sometimes we even sit together after the training and we chat for an other 10 minutes or so…
One of the biggest problems is that he is 10 years older…and I’m scared that he doesn’t even like me and that he treats me like any other of his clients…

What should I do?

A: You are waaay too young for him to even consider, move on

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